Ep105 – Disconnected: The Needs of a Couple in RecoveryEp105 – Disconnected: The Needs of a Couple in Recovery
Untoxicated Podcast
When Matt thought he most needed Sheri's support and sympathy while he was in early sobriety, Sheri was detached and focused on her own healing and independence. It turns out, Sheri's detachment might have saved the marriage. What the alcoholic needs,
47:13•20 Sept 2021
Healing Together Apart: Couples in Recovery on Untoxicated Podcast
“That's one of the reasons we describe alcoholism as a diabolical disease. But there is a way to navigate sobriety as individuals, and make the relationship thrive in the end.”
Imagine needing support during your toughest times, only to find your partner distant and focused on their own healing. This is the reality Matt and Sheri Salis explore in this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast. Early sobriety was a turbulent period for Matt, who craved Sheri's sympathy and support. However, Sheri chose to detach and concentrate on her own recovery and independence. Surprisingly, this detachment might have been the key to saving their marriage.
The needs of an alcoholic and their loved one during recovery can seem at odds, making alcoholism a truly tricky disease to manage. But there is hope. Matt and Sheri discuss how couples can navigate sobriety individually while still fostering a healthy relationship. Sheri's detachment, initially perceived as disconnection, allowed her to heal and focus on self-care. This, in turn, gave Matt the space he needed to work on his own recovery.
Their candid conversation sheds light on how understanding addiction and prioritizing individual healing can help couples thrive together in the long run. If you're navigating the rocky path of recovery with a loved one, this episode offers valuable insights and hope for a brighter future.
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