Ep 162. Love Addiction, Codependency, and the Patterns We Inherit, with Rod ButterssEp 162. Love Addiction, Codependency, and the Patterns We Inherit, with Rod Butterss
Behind The Smile with Ash Butterss
Ash and Rod Butterss explore love addiction, codependency, and family dynamics, highlighting the importance of healthy communication and self-awareness in relationships.
1:16:16•15 Feb 2026
Breaking Patterns: Love, Codependency & Family Dynamics
Episode Overview
- Love addiction and codependency often go unspoken but deeply affect relationships.
- Family dynamics can shape how we love and repeat patterns unknowingly.
- Healthy communication is key to breaking negative cycles.
- Personal reflection is crucial for understanding relationship dynamics.
- Recovery can offer a new perspective on past behaviours.
“"If you carry an addict, they'll die in your arms."”
How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? This episode of 'Behind The Smile' brings Ash Butterss and her father, Rod Butterss, together for a heartfelt discussion on love addiction, codependency, and the intricate patterns we inherit. They chat about topics many shy away from, like love avoidance and the true essence of healthy communication.
With a blend of personal stories and honest reflection, Ash and Rod dissect how family dynamics influence our relationships and the cycles we unconsciously repeat. Ash candidly shares her own crossroads about motherhood, adding depth to the conversation. Their dialogue offers listeners a chance to reflect on their own experiences and consider the importance of open communication and self-awareness in relationships. Rod's experiences in recovery also highlight the transformative power of understanding and breaking free from old patterns.
As they explore these complex topics, you'll find yourself questioning your own relationship dynamics and perhaps recognising patterns you weren't aware of. Are you ready to challenge your understanding of love and relationships?
Listen in to gain a fresh perspective.

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