FAMILIES SPEAK: Should I Give My Loved One Money?FAMILIES SPEAK: Should I Give My Loved One Money?
Coming Up for Air — Families Speak to Families about Addiction
Discussing the complexities of giving money to loved ones with addiction, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt stories on setting healthy financial boundaries.
42:16•15 Feb 2025
Navigating Financial Boundaries with Loved Ones in Addiction Recovery
Episode Overview
- Understand your relationship with money to guide decisions.
- Set clear boundaries and communicate them effectively.
- Use the CRAFT method to support healthy behaviour.
- Recognise the emotional impact of financial decisions.
- Balance support with allowing natural consequences.
“I was held hostage by those types of conversations. I really did not do well with that kind of thing”
Money can be a tricky topic, especially when it comes to loved ones dealing with addiction. In this episode of 'Coming Up for Air', Isabelle Cooney and Kayla Solomon, along with several family members, dive into the complexities of giving money to a loved one struggling with substance use disorder. They share their personal stories and experiences before and after using the CRAFT method, which they teach at Allies in Recovery.
The conversation covers various perspectives on when it might be appropriate to offer financial help and when it’s better to set boundaries. The hosts and guests discuss how their approach to money changed after learning about the CRAFT toolkit, highlighting the importance of understanding one's relationship with money and setting clear, healthy boundaries. You'll hear heartfelt anecdotes about the challenges and successes they faced, offering valuable insights for anyone in a similar situation.
Whether you're dealing with a loved one asking for 'just 20 dollars' or needing rent money, this episode provides practical advice and emotional support. It's a must-listen for anyone grappling with the difficult decision of whether or not to give money to a loved one battling addiction. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how to handle these tough conversations and make decisions that support both your loved one’s recovery and your own peace of mind.

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