Nelson H.
Nelson H.
Giving is receiving
Giving is receiving
Giving is receiving
Thursday 23rd May 2024
Join Nelson H. as he shares a heartfelt story about giving, gratitude, and the complex dance of expectations in sobriety.
5 minutes
Honest
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Compassionate
Reflective
Humorous
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Nelson H.
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Sobriety Toolkit
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Giving can bring immense joy but also requires self-reflection.
- Expectations can lead to resentment if not managed properly.
- Generosity should be balanced with spiritual awareness.
- Acts of kindness are rewarding but should not be done for validation.
- Humour can be a powerful tool in navigating sobriety.
Expectations are resentment. They're seeds for resentments.
In this episode of LOL Sober, Nelson H. shares a heartwarming tale that highlights the beauty of giving and the complexities that come with it. Nelson recounts a touching experience at his local gym, where he decided to show appreciation to a group of men from a facility for cognitive disabilities who work tirelessly to keep the gym spotless.
With a thank you card and a Starbucks gift card in hand, Nelson brightened their day, sparking smiles and gratitude all around. But as with many acts of kindness, Nelson found himself reflecting on his motives. Was he doing it purely for the joy of giving, or was he secretly hoping for recognition? This introspective journey leads him to ponder the nature of expectations and how they can sometimes plant seeds of resentment.
Nelson candidly admits to enjoying the high that comes from being appreciated, yet he’s mindful of the balance between genuine generosity and seeking validation. He likens this to the common human experience of expecting reciprocity in relationships – who hasn’t felt a twinge of disappointment when a birthday gift isn’t reciprocated? Through humour and honesty, Nelson navigates these feelings, reminding us all that it's okay to seek joy in giving, but crucial to remain spiritually grounded.
The episode is a delightful mix of laughter and sincerity, inviting listeners to reflect on their own experiences with generosity and gratitude. If you’re looking for a dose of humour mixed with heartfelt reflection, this episode is sure to leave you smiling and thinking about the true meaning of giving.