Healing Money Wounds: Andrea on Financial Recovery from Dysfunctional Families
For children, the situation is even more complicated when we see the people around us reacting to money. But the subconscious messages that were emitted, that were internalized within me, was that, while money is not the key to happiness, it, sure as hell, is a very large component that you do not follow your dreams.
Money can be a touchy subject, especially when our relationship with it is tangled up in the messiness of a dysfunctional upbringing. In this episode, Andrea takes the mic solo to dig into how growing up in chaotic family environments can leave us grappling with financial issues like overspending, compulsive debt, and underearning. If you've ever wondered why your wallet feels like a battleground, this one's for you.
Andrea breaks down how the messages we received about money as kids—whether they were shouted or whispered—can still control our financial habits today. She dives into money scripts and explains how both conscious and subconscious beliefs shape our actions around cash. But it's not all doom and gloom; Andrea offers a path to healing. By understanding where these patterns come from, we can start to change them.
Resources like 'Mind over Money' by Brad Klontz and Ted Klontz, and 'Financial Recovery' by Karen McCall are mentioned as great tools for anyone looking to mend their money mindset. This episode isn't just about diagnosing the problem; it's about finding hope and practical steps to reclaim your financial health. So, if you're an adult child of a dysfunctional family struggling with money issues, tune in for some heartfelt advice and actionable tips.