Overcoming Overthinking: Kayla Roge's Journey
Episode Overview
Kayla Roge discusses her journey from perfectionism to authenticity. Self-awareness as a key to overcoming overthinking. The therapeutic benefits of creativity and play. Importance of questioning societal norms and personal boundaries. Seeking support through therapy and community.
I don't have to continue to be who I was; I get to choose who I become.
In the latest episode of Becoming Wildly Well, host Brandi Lea welcomes Kayla Roge, a recovering perfectionist and podcast host from Austin, Texas. Kayla shares her transformative journey to self-awareness and authenticity, shedding light on how overthinking and perfectionism have impacted her life. From being labeled a shy child to struggling with anxiety and people-pleasing tendencies, Kayla opens up about the challenges she faced growing up.
The turning point for Kayla came when she read 'Girl Wash Your Face' by Rachel Hollis, a book that sparked her journey to healing. Through therapy, reading, and introspection, Kayla began to peel back the layers of her identity, confronting her fears and embracing imperfections. She emphasizes the importance of becoming self-aware and questioning motivations behind actions, asking whether they are driven by personal desires or external pressures. Creativity has played a significant role in Kayla's healing process.
Engaging in art without the constraints of perfectionism has brought her joy and peace, highlighting the meditative aspects of creative expression. Kayla believes that creativity and curiosity are essential for self-awareness and encourages listeners to explore these avenues. A key theme of the episode is the concept of play and curiosity as natural states of being. Kayla and Brandi discuss how societal expectations often stifle these instincts, urging adults to rediscover the joy of play.
Whether through interactions with children or personal hobbies, incorporating play into daily life can enhance presence and well-being. Listeners interested in following Kayla's journey can find her podcast, 'Overthinking with Kayla,' on various platforms and connect with her on Instagram. This episode serves as a hopeful reminder that healing is a personal journey, and embracing one's authentic self is a rewarding path.