How To Use A Pros and Cons List To Build MotivationHow To Use A Pros and Cons List To Build Motivation
Brain Over Booze Podcast
Jordan Vonk shares how a pros and cons list can motivate change by revealing the hidden costs of alcohol and the benefits of sobriety.
8:10•9 May 2025
Unlocking Motivation: The Power of Pros and Cons in Alcohol Recovery
Episode Overview
- Using a pros and cons list can create emotional fuel for change.
- Alcohol often leads to mental fog and emotional instability.
- Recognising negatives is a step towards gaining clarity and joy.
- Stopping drinking can improve career ambitions and personal relationships.
- You’re not alone in your journey; there's hope for transformation.
“"I tell myself alcohol gives me relief from pressure, but it really gives me mental fog, emotional instability, self-disgust, and quiet panic at 3am"”
In this episode of the Brain Over Booze Podcast, Jordan Vonk shares a fascinating tool that can help you find motivation to quit drinking – the pros and cons list. Using an AI-generated client named Sophie, Jordan illustrates how alcohol affects various aspects of life, from career ambitions to personal relationships. Sophie’s list reveals a struggle familiar to many, highlighting how alcohol can create a cycle of regret and self-doubt.
The emotional turmoil Sophie faces is portrayed with striking honesty, capturing the essence of what many experience but rarely articulate. Through her story, listeners can identify their own challenges and realise the potential benefits of change. Jordan emphasises that recognising these pros and cons isn't just about listing negatives – it's about creating a powerful catalyst for change. If Sophie stops drinking, she stands to gain clarity, emotional resilience, and authentic joy.
This episode is a wake-up call for anyone feeling trapped by alcohol, offering hope that change is possible. Whether you're looking for practical advice or emotional support, this podcast is a reminder that you’re not alone in your journey. So why not give it a listen and see if Sophie’s story resonates with you?

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