Prajinta Pesqueda
Prajinta Pesqueda
Memory & the Narcissist: They Don't Remember You
Memory & the Narcissist: They Don't Remember You
Memory & the Narcissist: They Don't Remember You
Sunday 5th December 2021
Discover how narcissists erase their victims' existence and the impact on identity and mental health in this 'N.A.R.C. Troopers' episode.
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Get the buttons here!N.A.R.C. Troopers: The Narcissist's Memory Wipe
For the victim, what could be worse than to be erased, as if you never existed, and that all of those months and years, and maybe decades with that person? And if you never existed, that means they don't remember you.
Imagine being erased from someone's life as if you never existed. In this episode of 'N.A.R.C. Troopers,' host Prajinta Pesqueda tackles the chilling reality of how individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) rewrite history to fit their narrative, completely erasing their victims. It's not just about forgetting a name or a face; it's about invalidating an entire existence, leaving the victim grappling with an existential crisis and identity destruction.
Pesqueda delves into the psychological impact of this memory wipe, discussing how it leads to Prolonged Grief Disorder (PGD), a severe form of grief that intensifies over time rather than diminishing. Victims often find themselves trapped in a dissociative state, losing their sense of self and agency. The episode sheds light on how the narcissist's distorted memory plays a significant role in this process, causing victims to feel objectified and maltreated.
Pesqueda offers practical advice for those struggling to reclaim their identity, such as keeping sleep journals, diaries, or memory inventories to reconstruct a fragmented past. The episode also touches on the devaluation phase in narcissistic relationships, where the abuser starts seeking a replacement, further deepening the victim's sense of worthlessness. Additionally, Pesqueda shares insights into the process of publishing a book on this topic, providing encouragement for those on their healing journey.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone affected by narcissistic abuse, offering valuable insights and practical steps towards recovery.