SHITSHOW SATURDAY #158 - How Logic Blocks Your HealingSHITSHOW SATURDAY #158 - How Logic Blocks Your Healing
Adult Child
Explore how adult logic blocks trauma healing and discover tools for emotional awareness in this insightful episode of Shitshow Saturday.
36:11•21 Jun 2025
SHITSHOW SATURDAY #158 - How Logic Blocks Your Healing
Episode Overview
- Logic can hinder emotional healing.
- Trauma is about impact, not event.
- Adult mind rationalizes parental behavior.
- Feeling, not just understanding, is key.
- Tools like Hormone Harmony and IFS therapy help.
“If I can understand it, then I don't have to feel it. That’s been one of my protectors.”
In this compelling episode of 'Shitshow Saturday,' the discussion delves into how our adult brains can block our healing journey from past traumas. Often, the adult mind rationalizes and minimizes past experiences, labeling them as not traumatic enough to warrant attention or healing. This is a significant barrier to emotional healing because it prevents individuals from genuinely feeling and processing past trauma.
The episode emphasizes that trauma should not be defined by the event itself but by the impact it has on one’s nervous system. The host, Andrea, explains that as adults, we frequently excuse or reframe our parents' behavior, empathizing with their circumstances rather than validating our pain. This cognitive approach can lead to a disconnection from our younger selves who experienced the trauma.
The episode underscores the importance of moving beyond intellectual understanding to truly feel and heal the impact of past experiences. Listeners are introduced to tools like Hormone Harmony, which helps with symptoms such as bloating, fatigue, and mood swings, and IFS (Internal Family Systems) therapy, which focuses on understanding and integrating different parts of oneself. The host notes that understanding trauma is not solely about figuring it out but about feeling and processing the emotions stored within the body.
Additionally, the episode lightly touches on Indeed's sponsored jobs as a means to quickly find job candidates, noting their effectiveness with increased applications. This serves as a brief interlude within the overarching theme of emotional and trauma healing. The episode closes with a hopeful tone, encouraging listeners to embrace the emotional work required for genuine healing.

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