Shitshow Saturday #190 - The Betrayal WoundShitshow Saturday #190 - The Betrayal Wound
Adult Child
Andrea Ashley discusses the impact of family betrayal on adult life, exploring emotional, physical, relational, and trust betrayals. The episode offers insights into recognising these patterns and setting boundaries for healing.
39:01•7 Feb 2026
Unpacking Family Betrayal: A Journey to Healing
Episode Overview
- Recognising different forms of family betrayal is crucial for healing.
- Childhood betrayals can resurface in adult relationships.
- Setting boundaries is key to breaking cycles of dysfunction.
- Support groups can provide a safe space for sharing and healing.
- Understanding betrayal helps in rebuilding trust and self-worth.
“"Betrayal isn't just about the big dramatic moments; it's often the quieter, insidious ways that shape us."”
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? In this heartfelt episode of Adult Child, Andrea Ashley dives into the profound impact of betrayal within dysfunctional families. The conversation is raw and honest, exploring how subtle betrayals shape our self-worth and expectations in relationships. Andrea and her guests discuss four types of family betrayal: emotional, physical or safety-based, relational, and trust betrayals. They share personal stories that illustrate how these experiences can deeply affect one's adult life.
The episode also touches on the struggle to recognise betrayal as adults, especially when it feels familiar from childhood. Andrea highlights the importance of recognising these patterns and learning to set boundaries. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with the aftermath of family betrayal, offering a supportive space for healing and understanding. By sharing their journeys, Andrea and her guests provide comfort and encouragement to those on similar paths.
Which type of betrayal resonates most with you, and how can you begin to address it?

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