Andrea

Adult Child

Andrea Ashley

  • 216 - How Trauma Becomes Sexual Compulsion: Shame, Betrayal & Technology Addiction w/ Duane Osterlind

216 - How Trauma Becomes Sexual Compulsion: Shame, Betrayal & Technology Addiction w/ Duane Osterlind

Wednesday 4th February 2026

Explore how trauma and technology fuel sexual compulsion with therapist Duane Osterlind on 'Adult Child' podcast.
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77 minutes
Informative
Compassionate
Inspiring
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Adult Child
Author:
Andrea
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Categories:
Healing Relationships
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Recovery from Trauma
Sobriety Toolkit
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
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Sexual Compulsion & Technology: A New Era of Addiction

Episode Overview

  • Technology has introduced new challenges in treating addictions.
  • Early exposure to high-speed internet can lead to compulsive behaviours.
  • Healing from betrayal requires empathy and accountability.
  • Shame regulation is crucial for rebuilding trust.
  • Support groups play a vital role in the recovery process.
"It's hard to heal if you try through the lens of shame. Compassionate accountability is key."
How do people find strength in their journey to sobriety? This episode of 'Adult Child' with Andrea Ashley tackles a topic that's often shrouded in silence—sexual compulsion and its intricate ties to trauma, technology addiction, and betrayal. Andrea is joined by Duane Osterlind, a seasoned therapist and host of 'The Addicted Mind' podcast, who specialises in helping individuals and couples navigate the turbulent waters of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.
Duane brings a wealth of experience to the table, offering insights into how technology has transformed the landscape of addiction. With the advent of high-speed internet, a new breed of addiction has emerged, one that society is still grappling with how to treat effectively. This episode sheds light on how early exposure to technology can lead to compulsive behaviours, especially among younger generations. The conversation takes a deep dive into the emotional and psychological impact of betrayal within relationships.
Duane explains the complex journey of healing from betrayal, emphasising the need for accountability and empathy. He shares his approach through the 'Shame to Resilience' programme, designed to help men who've caused betrayal learn to regulate their shame and rebuild trust with their partners. The dialogue is both raw and enlightening, addressing the societal taboos surrounding sex addiction and the critical role of compassion in recovery.
Whether you're dealing with your own struggles or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable perspectives on healing and growth. So, what drives someone to seek a life without addiction? Could understanding these complex dynamics be the key to lasting change?
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