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Steve T – What made us balk at writing our Step Four inventory?
Steve T – What made us balk at writing our Step Four inventory?
Steve T – What made us balk at writing our Step Four inventory?
Saturday 23rd January 2021
Join Steve T as he shares his candid experience with Step Four inventory and the lessons learned from overcoming blind spots in recovery.
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Episode Overview
- Steve initially approached Step Four with a broad list of faults.
- His sponsor advised focusing on specific examples instead.
- Struggled with recalling personal missteps due to shame.
- Used 'A Guide to the Fourth Step' for targeted reflection.
- Family support helped identify blind spots in behaviour.
Sometimes we have blind spots about our behavior. And try as we might, we just can't see things.
SoberQ takes you on a journey through the ups and downs of tackling the Fourth Step inventory with Steve T, a seasoned member of the Balmain Thursday Night Group. Steve shares his initial approach to the Fourth Step - a laundry list of every conceivable fault, from dishonesty to gluttony. His sponsor's advice to focus on specific examples rather than broad accusations was a turning point, leading Steve to face the real challenge of recalling personal missteps.
As he battled through feelings of shame and embarrassment, Steve's commitment to completing the Fifth Step pushed him forward. He used 'A Guide to the Fourth Step' to help pinpoint areas like pride and anger, but hit a wall when it came to selfishness. It wasn't until his wife offered her perspective that Steve could finally see past his blind spots and complete his inventory.
This episode highlights the importance of having supportive friends or family who can gently point out behaviours we might miss ourselves. Steve's story is a testament to the power of self-reflection and the strength found in vulnerability. You'll leave with a sense of camaraderie and the knowledge that you're not alone in facing these hurdles. Ready to tackle your own inventory? Tune in to hear Steve's candid reflections and learn how you might find clarity in your own journey.