Stop Re-Traumatizing the Victim of Narcissistic AbuseStop Re-Traumatizing the Victim of Narcissistic Abuse
N.A.R.C. Troopers: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Collaborators
Learn how to genuinely support survivors of narcissistic abuse with empathy and understanding.
29:34•15 May 2023
How to Truly Support Narcissistic Abuse Survivors
Episode Overview
- Recovery from a relationship with a cluster B disordered person is unlike any other breakup or decoupling, requiring a wholly different approach to healing.
- Efforts to 'fix' or 'love' narcissists back to wellness are futile due to the severe and neurodivergent nature of their disorder.
- Insensitive, triggering remarks from well-meaning individuals can worsen the trauma experienced by narcissistic abuse victims.
- Empathetic and understanding support is crucial for those on the journey of healing from narcissistic abuse, requiring caution with words and genuine compassion.
- The aftermath of being involved with a narcissist is deeply destructive and necessitates an entirely new approach to recovery, akin to a rebirth and reimagining of the self.
“Recovery from a relationship with a cluster B disordered person is like death. It is unlike any other breakup or decoupling or unpairing. There are no working steps of grief followed by a nice tidy closure and then followed by a fresh new start, maybe 12, 18 months later, like what happens normally with most relationships. That's kind of how that goes, right? This is different.”
Ever felt helpless trying to support a friend or loved one who’s survived narcissistic abuse? This episode of N.A.R.C. Troopers dives into the complexities of aiding someone on their recovery journey. Host Prajinta Pesqueda sheds light on why well-meaning advice can sometimes do more harm than good. She explores the intricate dynamics of trauma bonding and the devastating aftermath that victims endure, stressing the importance of empathy and understanding over quick fixes.
Prajinta also discusses the insensitive remarks survivors often face and offers practical tips on how to provide genuine support. By tuning in, you'll gain a deeper appreciation of the severe nature of narcissistic disorders and learn how to be a true ally to those on their path to healing.

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