True Safety vs. Illusion: A Journey in Violence Addiction Recovery
I'm learning to create a true sense of safety and certainty instead of the illusion of safety and certainty.
Growing up in a world where violence and control were the norms, James M. knows firsthand how these experiences can warp one's sense of safety. In this episode of 'Understanding Violence Addiction', he opens up about the crucial distinction between true safety and the illusion of safety, a topic that resonates deeply with anyone on the path to recovery from violence addiction.
James shares his personal story, revealing how manipulation and control once seemed like necessary tools to create a semblance of safety. However, this so-called safety was nothing more than an illusion, one that he carried into adulthood. Through his journey, James learned to identify these illusions and replace them with genuine security. Listeners will find themselves reflecting on their own experiences as James emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and consistent action in building true safety.
He offers practical advice on how to process triggers and take steps towards authentic security, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking to break free from the cycle of violence addiction. Whether you're struggling with violence addiction yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode provides valuable insights and actionable steps to foster real safety in your life. James's compassionate approach and expert guidance create a supportive environment for listeners to explore their own paths to recovery.