Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
The Glass Borderline "H*mpty D*mpty" No Real Self
The Glass Borderline "H*mpty D*mpty" No Real Self
The Glass Borderline "H*mpty D*mpty" No Real Self
Sunday 18th January 2026
Explore the emotional dynamics of BPD relationships with A.J. Mahari. Learn about the 'Glass Borderline Humpty Dumpty' metaphor and find healing insights.
28 minutes
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Compassionate
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Author:
Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Categories:
Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Navigating Alcohol Dependency
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Episode Overview
- Relationships with untreated BPD individuals often involve crisis cycles.
- Idealisation creates a fantasy bond that leads to emotional turmoil.
- Understanding ego fragmentation is key to comprehending BPD behaviour.
- Self-care and healing are crucial after ending a BPD relationship.
- Recognising the cyclical nature of these relationships can aid recovery.
"Even if you had your own magical psych ward, people standing by to help your borderline in every crisis, you just go in circles."
What emotional and inspiring tales of recovery are out there? The latest episode of 'Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups' tackles the complex and often tumultuous dynamics of relationships involving Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Hosted by A.J. Mahari, a seasoned counsellor and trauma recovery coach, this episode delves into the metaphor of the 'Glass Borderline Humpty Dumpty,' shedding light on the fragmented self of individuals with BPD.
Through relatable anecdotes and expert insights, Mahari explores how these relationships often feel like a rollercoaster ride—one moment you're on top of the world, and the next, you're plummeting into chaos. Listeners are taken on a journey through the psychological maze of codependency and BPD, exploring why these relationships are fraught with 'what ifs' and endless rumination.
Mahari explains how the idealisation phase can create a fantasy bond that feels like meeting your soulmate, only to crash into the harsh reality of devaluation and emotional turmoil. The episode is not just a deep dive into the emotional challenges but also a call to action for those struggling with these relationships. Mahari emphasises the importance of recognising the cyclical nature of crisis in BPD relationships and encourages listeners to focus on their own healing and recovery.
With compassion and honesty, this episode offers a lifeline to those feeling lost in the storm of a BPD breakup. If you've ever felt like you needed a 'CIA level skill set' just to keep things afloat, this episode might just be what you need to start reclaiming your life. Are you ready to step away from the chaos and find peace within yourself?