12th Step Podcast
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The Weight of Silence: Shame, Secrets, and Sexualization for the Betrayed Partner
The Weight of Silence: Shame, Secrets, and Sexualization for the Betrayed Partner
The Weight of Silence: Shame, Secrets, and Sexualization for the Betrayed Partner
Friday 31st October 2025
Join Tera Lynch as she tackles the shame and secrets of betrayed partners and the impact of societal sexualisation.
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Episode Overview
- Shame and secrecy can deeply affect relationships.
- Openness is crucial for healing from betrayal.
- Societal sexualisation impacts self-esteem.
- Support systems are vital for recovery.
- Keeping secrets exacerbates isolation.
I was so busy protecting my spouse because I wanted the marriage to work.
In this riveting episode of The 12th Step Podcast, listeners are invited to hear Tera Lynch, an author and previous guest, as she bravely discusses the intense shame and isolation experienced by betrayed partners. Tera shares her personal journey of concealing her partner's betrayal, revealing the emotional toll it took on her relationships and mental health. The hosts, Gary, Mike, and Daniel, alongside Tera, dissect how society's pervasive sexualisation impacts a partner's self-esteem and relationships.
Through candid conversations, they explore how keeping secrets can exacerbate feelings of shame and isolation, while openness can be a pathway to healing. The episode also delves into the challenges faced by those dealing with sexual addiction, offering insights into how both addicts and their partners can find support and understanding. This episode isn't just about sharing experiences; it's about shedding light on the often unspoken struggles of partners in these situations.
As Tera opens up about her past and the journey to reclaim her sense of self, listeners will find both solace and strength in her story. It's a conversation that highlights the importance of community and support in overcoming deep-seated pain. How do you think society's sexualisation affects our relationships? Tune in to find out more.