Mending Bonds: Wenceslao's Journey to Amends
Episode Overview
Making amends requires genuine change, not just apologies. Small daily rituals can significantly impact relationships. Perseverance is key in transforming family dynamics. Guidance from sponsors can be crucial in recovery. Personal growth often accompanies efforts to mend relationships.
It's not about saying sorry, it's about what am I willing to change, to let go, to sacrifice for the greater good
In this episode of SoberQ, Wenceslao opens up about the challenging journey of making amends with family during his recovery. With a focus on genuine change rather than just apologies, Wenceslao shares how he tackled financial and living amends, particularly with his father. The process was slow and often painful, highlighting the difficulty of truly changing attitudes and dynamics within relationships.
Wenceslao recounts a pivotal moment when his sponsor suggested a simple daily ritual – greeting his father and offering a cup of coffee. Despite initial resistance, Wenceslao persisted, driven by the understanding that the effort was for his own growth as much as it was for mending the relationship. The breakthrough came unexpectedly when his father finally accepted the coffee, marking a shift in their relationship.
This touching story illustrates how patience and consistency can lead to meaningful transformation, not just in relationships but within oneself. If you're curious about how small gestures can make a big impact, this episode offers heartfelt insights into the power of perseverance and change.