Finding Strength in Powerlessness: James M's Journey Through Step One
So, I think powerlessness...once I can get myself off the drama triangle and reframe and make adult choices about what I'm going to do in that situation. Those things I can cultivate, I can generate some power there over time because I have practice of not engaging in drama and not engaging in...
Ever felt like you're caught in a loop, repeating the same steps over and over? James M certainly has. In this episode of 'Understanding Violence Addiction', he takes listeners on his 25th journey through the 12 steps, focusing on the concept of powerlessness. James dives into what it means to truly acknowledge one's lack of control, especially in the context of violence addiction.
He reflects on his experiences within the Drama Triangle, playing roles like the Persecutor, Rescuer, and Victim, and how these roles have shaped his understanding of powerlessness. But it’s not all about feeling helpless. James shares how recognizing this powerlessness is actually the first step towards reclaiming personal strength. Through tools like service and connecting with a higher power, he discusses how individuals can start to regain control and make more conscious, adult choices in their lives.
Whether you're struggling with violence addiction or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a compassionate and insightful look at how to navigate these challenging dynamics. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that might just inspire you to take that first step towards change.