Nadia Sawalha & Mark Adderley
Nadia Sawalha & Mark Adderley
#157 - Why Location Sharing is TOXIC for ALL Relationships
#157 - Why Location Sharing is TOXIC for ALL Relationships
#157 - Why Location Sharing is TOXIC for ALL Relationships
Tuesday 19th August 2025
Explore the impact of location sharing on relationships and why it can be toxic. Learn about jealousy, privacy, and managing digital boundaries.
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Nadia Sawalha & Mark Adderley
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Episode Overview
- Location sharing can be toxic to relationships.
- Jealousy is a major destructive force in relationships.
- Coercive control through technology is a growing concern.
- Building self-esteem and emotional security is crucial.
- Setting boundaries is essential for healthy relationships.
For me, it's the number one most destructive thing in a relationship is jealousy.
In this thought-provoking episode of 'How to Stay Married So Far', hosts Nadia Sawalha and Mark Adderley tackle the complex issue of location sharing and its potentially toxic impact on relationships. They delve into the intricate dynamics of jealousy and coercive control facilitated by modern technology, such as location apps and digital surveillance tools.
The discussion opens with Nadia expressing her deep concerns about the pervasive use of location services, likening it to letting a genie out of the bottle that can't be put back. Mark shares his experience with jealousy, admitting that had these technologies been present during the height of his struggles, they might have exacerbated the situation. He acknowledges the destructive nature of jealousy, comparing it to an addiction that needs careful management and self-awareness to overcome.
The hosts explore how jealousy often stems from fear of abandonment and insecurity, and how location sharing can amplify these feelings by providing constant, often unnecessary insights into a partner's whereabouts. They emphasize the importance of understanding the roots of jealousy, distinguishing between different types and recognizing its impact on relationships.
The conversation turns to coercive control, with Mark drawing parallels between his experiences and the article he found, highlighting how technology can be used to exert control and surveillance over partners. They stress the significance of setting boundaries and fostering communication to mitigate the negative effects of digital tools in relationships. Nadia and Mark advocate for personal growth and self-esteem building as essential components of a healthy relationship.
They encourage listeners to focus on emotional wellbeing and to set boundaries that protect individual privacy. Ultimately, they underline that while technology can offer convenience, it requires careful navigation to prevent it from becoming a tool for control. This episode serves as both a cautionary tale and a supportive guide, urging couples to reflect on their use of technology and to prioritize trust and communication. It is a call to action for maintaining healthy relationships in the digital age.