Bonita Ackerman du Preez
Bonita Ackerman du Preez
#49Left Behind How Childhood Abandonment Shapes Your Life and Relationships
#49Left Behind How Childhood Abandonment Shapes Your Life and Relationships
#49Left Behind How Childhood Abandonment Shapes Your Life and Relationships
Sunday 4th May 2025
Explore how childhood abandonment shapes adult relationships with Bonita Ackerman du Preez's expert insights.
7 minutes
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Compassionate
Hopeful
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Educational
About this podcast
Author:
Bonita Ackerman du Preez
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Categories:
Recovery from Trauma
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Mindful Recovery
Healing Relationships
Entrepreneurship for Personal Growth
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Episode Overview
- Childhood abandonment affects adult relationships and self-worth.
- Unresolved abandonment leads to anxiety and depression.
- Codependency can result from fear of rejection.
- Emotional detachment is a common response to past abandonment.
- Clinginess may occur due to fear of being alone.
As humans we hate inconsistency. But in a child, it is initialised as experiencing feelings of I'm not worthy or people don't care about me or people leave me.
Ever wondered why childhood abandonment leaves such a lasting mark on your life and relationships? This episode of The Trauma Recovery School dives deep into the emotional labyrinth of feeling left behind and how it shapes our adult lives. Bonita Ackerman du Preez, an award-winning master trauma recovery therapist, unpacks the complexities of abandonment - from emotional absence to inconsistency in support during childhood.
She explains how these experiences impact our brain development, leading to a heightened stress response that echoes into adulthood. You'll hear about the struggle with anxiety, depression, and fear of rejection that often accompanies unresolved abandonment issues. Bonita explores how these feelings intertwine and amplify, creating a cocktail of emotions that affect everything from self-worth to career success. The discussion doesn't shy away from addressing codependency, emotional detachment, and the clinginess that can sabotage relationships.
The podcast is a compassionate guide for anyone dealing with the repercussions of abandonment. Bonita's insights are not just educational but offer a beacon of hope for those seeking understanding and healing. By listening, you might find new perspectives on managing the emotional scars that shape your life. Whether you're navigating your own journey or supporting someone else, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of how childhood experiences mould adult realities.
So, why not give it a listen and see what resonates with you?