Why Narcissists Keep Exes Close: Five Revealing Reasons
Having multiple women or multiple men that you continue to have contact with and attention from continues to give you toys to play with...
Ever wondered why some narcissists insist on staying friends with their exes? It can be baffling and even unsettling. In this episode of 'SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic and Abusive Personalities', Mandy Friedman, a licensed counselor and trauma expert, breaks down five reasons behind this perplexing behavior. Firstly, narcissists are deeply concerned with their image. They thrive on how others perceive them, so maintaining ties with exes helps them manage their public persona. Secondly, they see exes as emotional playthings.
The more people they have to manipulate, the better they feel about themselves. Thirdly, staying in touch provides a steady stream of attention. Even negative attention is better than none for a narcissist. Fourthly, infidelity is almost second nature to them, and having exes around keeps their options open. Lastly, they enjoy sowing seeds of insecurity. Making their exes feel uncertain and jealous gives them a twisted sense of power.
Mandy's insights don't just stop at explaining these behaviors; she also offers practical advice on how to protect yourself. Setting firm boundaries and cutting off contact are crucial steps in reclaiming your life. Recognizing the signs of narcissistic manipulation can help you stay vigilant and trust your instincts. This episode is a treasure trove of knowledge for anyone grappling with the aftermath of a narcissistic relationship. If you're on the path to recovery, Mandy's guidance could be your compass.
Tune in to gain a deeper understanding and find solidarity in your healing journey.