#92 Whats Wrong with Me?
#92 Whats Wrong with Me?

The Gathering With Roger B.

Roger B. shares his transformative journey from childhood shame to self-acceptance, offering insights on overcoming fear and embracing spiritual principles.

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The Gathering With Roger B.

Roger B.

The Gathering’s talks are generally tied to one or more of the 12 Steps, but are always guided by spiritual concepts, principles and ideas common to most faiths. Topics are drawn from a variety of sources: the 12 steps, many of the well-known wisdom texts, science and other teachers that speak to a spiritual solution to life's challenges. About Roger B. Roger has been in recovery for over 43 years and has spent thousands of hours in service, sharing his experience, strength and hope. He has created curriculum for treatment centers, and lead workshops and retreats throughout the United States and Canada. Roger is a certified Spiritual Director, and offers insight into spiritually-based living skills that are relevant to all people – whether in recovery or not. Roger is the first to admit that his long-term sobriety was brought about by the “trial-and-error method.” His experience reveals what has worked, and - perhaps more importantly - what has not worked, but taught him valuable life lessons. Roger B. and The Gathering with Roger B. are not affiliated, or endorsed by any third parties or 12-step programs. The Gathering on Zoom first and Third Wed 7pm CT id 728-200-4166 password 513915

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Finding Freedom: Roger B.'s Journey from Shame to Self-Acceptance

Episode Overview

Understanding the root of shame and fear can lead to personal growth.
The 'beast' within represents destructive self-talk that must be addressed.
Spiritual principles offer a pathway to peace and acceptance.
Community support is vital for recovery and transformation.
Self-love and acceptance are key components of a fulfilling life.

“The truth is, there's nothing the matter with us. We've gotten confused.”

What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? Roger B., with over 43 years in recovery, shares his journey from feeling inadequate as a child to finding peace and purpose. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of how shame and fear can lead to destructive behaviours, and how recognising the 'beast' within can help us shift towards a healthier mindset.

Roger talks about his personal battles with self-worth, the pressure to prove himself, and the transformation that comes from letting go of these burdens. Through anecdotes and wisdom, he discusses the importance of embracing one's true self and finding strength in spiritual principles. With humour and sincerity, Roger offers listeners a chance to reflect on their own experiences and encourages a shift in perspective. This episode isn't just about sobriety; it's about understanding the essence of self-love and acceptance.

Roger's candid storytelling and the supportive community he has built will leave you inspired to rethink what truly matters. Ready to challenge your own perceptions and find peace? Dive into this engaging conversation and discover what it means to be truly free.

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