Paul Gilmartin
Paul Gilmartin
Couple Troubles - Jen Elmquist LMFT
Couple Troubles - Jen Elmquist LMFT
Couple Troubles - Jen Elmquist LMFT
Friday 19th January 2018
Jen Elmquist offers practical advice on overcoming relationship pitfalls and valuing your partner without losing self-worth on Mental Illness Happy Hour.
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Get the buttons here!Jen Elmquist on Overcoming Common Relationship Pitfalls
So I think ultimately what it comes down to is: if you get to a place where you're so stuck in your relationship, I think what you are saying to the partner in that moment, or what feels like an ultimatum, is: we're so stuck.
Relationships can be a minefield of misunderstandings and unspoken expectations. In this episode of 'Mental Illness Happy Hour', host Paul Gilmartin sits down with Jen Elmquist, a licensed marriage and family therapist, to untangle the complexities of couple dynamics. Elmquist sheds light on the most frequent mistakes couples make and offers actionable advice to navigate these hurdles. Her insights focus on valuing your partner without losing your own sense of self-worth, an often overlooked but crucial aspect of healthy relationships.
Paul kicks off the episode with a gripping personal anecdote about a shocking incident at his support group meeting, setting a tone of raw honesty that carries through the conversation. Elmquist dives into the importance of recognizing patterns in relationships, emotional poverty, and ignorance that can erode intimacy. She stresses the need for healthy communication and pre-commitment counseling to build a solid foundation. One of the standout moments is Elmquist's discussion on the significance of truth-telling in relationships.
She argues that honesty isn't just a virtue but a cornerstone for a fulfilling partnership. This episode is a treasure trove of practical tips and deep insights for anyone looking to improve their relationship dynamics. Whether you're navigating a rocky patch or simply looking to strengthen your bond, Elmquist's wisdom offers something valuable for everyone. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that promises to leave you with a renewed perspective on love and partnership.