How do individuals turn their lives around after addiction? This episode of Sober Friends tackles the challenging concept of forgiveness, especially when it feels undeserved. Hosts Matt and Steve engage in a candid conversation about letting go of resentment, inspired by the story of CHiPs star Larry Wilcox, who found peace after years of bitterness towards his co-star Erik Estrada. The hosts share their own experiences with resentment and the emotional weight it carries, drawing parallels between forgiveness and recovery.

They discuss the importance of humility, prayer, and understanding others' perspectives as tools to navigate these difficult emotions. With a blend of humour and honesty, Matt and Steve explore the idea that holding onto grudges is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer. This episode offers listeners a fresh perspective on forgiveness, highlighting how it can lead to emotional freedom and personal growth.

So, how do you find the strength to let go of grudges and embrace forgiveness on your journey to sobriety? Tune in to hear more about this transformative process and how it can impact your path to recovery. Don't miss out on this engaging discussion that might just change the way you view resentment and healing. Remember, forgiveness is not about condoning wrong actions, but freeing yourself from the emotional burden they carry.

Are you ready to take that step towards inner peace? Give it a listen and find out how you can begin your own journey towards letting go and moving forward. This episode is sure to leave you feeling inspired and ready to tackle your own challenges with a fresh perspective. So, grab a cup of tea, get comfortable, and enjoy this heartfelt conversation between Matt and Steve on the Sober Friends Podcast.

Whether you're new to recovery or have been on this path for a while, there's something in this episode for everyone. Let the stories shared inspire you to take the next step in your own journey. What will you discover about yourself along the way? What will you learn from others who have faced similar struggles? Get ready for an uplifting experience that will leave you feeling hopeful and motivated.

Join us as we explore the power of forgiveness in recovery and beyond. How will you apply these lessons in your own life? Tune in to find out! Let's get started. Don't forget to subscribe to our free substack newsletter for more insights and support on your journey to sobriety! Go to soberfriendspod.substack.com and subscribe today! Now let's get into the show... Now let's get into the show... Now let's get into the show... Now let's get into the show...

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How do individuals turn their lives around after addiction? This episode of Sober Friends tackles the challenging concept of forgiveness, especially when it feels undeserved. Hosts Matt and Steve engage in a candid conversation about letting go of resentment, inspired by the story of CHiPs star Larry Wilcox, who found peace after years of bitterness towards his co-star Erik Estrada. The hosts share their own experiences with resentment and the emotional weight it carries, drawing parallels between forgiveness and recovery.They discuss the importance of humility, prayer, and understanding others' perspectives as tools to navigate these difficult emotions. With a blend of humour and honesty, Matt and Steve explore the idea that holding onto grudges is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer. 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So, grab a cup of tea, get comfortable, and enjoy this heartfelt conversation between Matt and Steve on the Sober Friends Podcast.Whether you're new to recovery or have been on this path for a while, there's something in this episode for everyone. Let the stories shared inspire you to take the next step in your own journey. What will you discover about yourself along the way? What will you learn from others who have faced similar struggles? Get ready for an uplifting experience that will leave you feeling hopeful and motivated.Join us as we explore the power of forgiveness in recovery and beyond. How will you apply these lessons in your own life? Tune in to find out! Let's get started. Don't forget to subscribe to our free substack newsletter for more insights and support on your journey to sobriety! Go to soberfriendspod.substack.com and subscribe today! Now let's get into the show... Now let's get into the show... Now let's get into the show... 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E247: Loving Your Enemies (Even When You Don’t Want To)

E247: Loving Your Enemies (Even When You Don’t Want To)

E247: Loving Your Enemies (Even When You Don’t Want To)

Tuesday 7th October 2025

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