Healing Through Art: Monika's Journey
Episode Overview
Monika's journey as a comic artist and abuse survivor. The decision to go no contact with her abusive mother. Healing through creativity and friendship. Impact of trauma on family relationships. Therapeutic tools shared for survivors.
Your heart is a muscle inside of your fist. Keep on loving and keep on fighting. And hold on, and hold on.
In this episode of Finding OK, host Hecate interviews Monika, a Polish LGBTQ+ comic artist who has gained recognition for her series 'My Secret Lesbian Comics'. Monika's work has touched the lives of many, with over 28,000 subscribers on Webtoon. However, her side project, 'Self-Pity Social Club', serves as a therapeutic outlet, allowing her to process trauma and find healing through art.
Monika bravely shares her experiences as a survivor of child abuse, discussing the profound impact her abusive mother had on her life. The decision to go no contact was a pivotal moment in her journey, as she navigates the complexities of family dynamics and the pressure from relatives to reconcile. Through her comics, Monika provides readers with a visual representation of trauma, helping them better understand and process their own experiences.
The conversation delves into the importance of creativity and friendship in Monika's healing process. Her comics capture PTSD moments and dissociative experiences, offering a relatable perspective for those who have endured similar challenges. Monika opens up about her supportive relationship with her sister and the deep trust she places in her friends, who have been a constant source of strength.
Throughout the interview, Monika shares powerful tools from therapy, emphasizing the significance of self-compassion and the need to prioritize one's well-being. Her insights offer valuable advice to other survivors, fostering a sense of hope and resilience. Hecate and Monika also touch on the broader societal issues affecting the LGBTQ+ community, acknowledging the importance of staying connected and supporting creators across various platforms.
As the episode draws to a close, listeners are encouraged to explore Monika's comics and support her work, celebrating her empathy and kindness. This episode of Finding OK is a testament to the transformative power of art and storytelling, providing a safe space for survivors to share their experiences and find solace in the shared journey towards healing.