Breaking the Silence: Male Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
Episode Overview
Men can be victims of narcissistic abuse, facing unique challenges. Childhood trauma can have lasting impacts on adult relationships. Owning your reactions can be transformative in healing. Abuse is never the victim's fault; understanding this can relieve pressure. Breaking societal stigma around male vulnerability is crucial.
"Realising it's not your fault takes a lot of the pressure off."
Men can be victims of narcissistic abuse too, and this episode of The Narcissistic Abuse & Trauma Recovery Podcast sheds light on a story that many might not expect. Caroline Strawson hosts a deeply moving conversation with Russell Tellup, who bravely shares his experiences of childhood abuse and its lasting impact on his adult relationships.
From being made to feel like the problem as a child to encountering narcissistic partners later in life, Russell's journey is one of resilience and healing. Russell opens up about his childhood in an abusive household, where he was often physically punished and emotionally neglected. These early experiences shaped his perception of self-worth, leading him into adult relationships that mirrored the emotional neglect he faced as a child.
Despite the challenges, Russell's vulnerability is a testament to his courage and strength as he navigates his trauma healing journey. Caroline and Russell discuss the societal stigma that often prevents men from seeking help for abuse, highlighting the importance of recognising and addressing these issues. Russell's story is not just about survival but about growth and transformation. His journey underscores the significance of owning one's reactions and understanding that abuse is never the victim's fault.
This episode is a compelling reminder that abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of gender. Russell's openness offers hope and inspiration for those struggling with similar experiences. By sharing his story, he challenges societal norms and encourages others to break their silence and seek healing. If you're looking for a powerful narrative that resonates with empathy and understanding, this episode is a must-listen.