Lee Davy

1000 Days Sober Podcast

Lee Davy

  • She Gets Softer When She Drinks—And That’s the Problem

She Gets Softer When She Drinks—And That’s the Problem

Friday 20th June 2025

Explore how to live alcohol-free while sharing life with a drinker. Discover ways to find peace from within.
10 minutes
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Honest

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1000 Days Sober Podcast
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Lee Davy
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Sobriety Toolkit
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When Their Drink Becomes Your Peace

Episode Overview

  • Recognise the impact of a partner's drinking on your emotions.
  • Shift focus from external conditions to internal peace.
  • Understand the importance of self-led living.
  • Learn to cultivate genuine intimacy without relying on alcohol.
  • Embrace the Strive Method for emotional sobriety.
It's not about them; it's about your nervous system.
Ever found yourself wishing for a loved one to take a sip just to feel a bit more connected? Lee Davy's episode 'She Gets Softer When She Drinks—And That’s the Problem' dives into the complexities of living alcohol-free while sharing life with someone who still drinks. Lee, with his candid style, addresses the emotional rollercoaster of finding comfort in a partner's altered state and the inner turmoil it brings.
Through anecdotes and heartfelt reflections, he explores how alcohol can sometimes make people softer and more affectionate, yet can also lead to moments of anger and disconnect. The episode challenges you to rethink your reliance on someone else's buzz for your own peace and safety. Lee passionately advocates for living an 'inside-out life', where your emotional stability isn't tethered to another's mood or drinking habits. He shares practical advice on cultivating true intimacy and self-leadership without relying on external changes.
If you're navigating the tricky waters of a relationship affected by alcohol, this episode offers both humour and wisdom to help you find clarity and strength within yourself. Why not give it a listen and see how you can shift from an outside-in life to one led from within?
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