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Why Alcohol Feels Like the Price of Belonging

Thursday 22nd January 2026

Explore why many drink to belong and how it complicates quitting. Lee Davy offers fresh insights into the social role of alcohol.
15 minutes
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Why Alcohol Feels Like the Price of Belonging

Episode Overview

  • Alcohol often serves as a tool for maintaining social roles.
  • Fear of losing belonging can hinder attempts to quit drinking.
  • True connection doesn't require numbing oneself with alcohol.
  • People overestimate the judgement they'll face when they stop drinking.
  • Sobriety can lead to personal growth and realignment of values.
"You're not drinking for the alcohol. You're drinking to keep your role within the tribe."
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? This episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast, hosted by Lee Davy, tackles the often overlooked reason why many struggle to quit alcohol: the fear of losing a sense of belonging. Davy unpacks the idea that alcohol isn't just about taste or relaxation; it's about maintaining one's place in social groups and intimate relationships.
He highlights how alcohol acts as a social glue, making it hard for people to imagine their lives without it. Lee shares anecdotes from his coaching experiences, revealing how clients often overestimate the judgement they'll face from friends and loved ones if they stop drinking. He argues that true belonging doesn't come from blending in but from feeling safe in your connections. Davy's insights challenge listeners to question what they're truly afraid of losing when they consider quitting alcohol.
The episode is packed with humour and honesty, providing a refreshing take on the complexities of alcohol dependency. It's a must-listen for anyone questioning their relationship with alcohol and looking for a supportive nudge towards change. What are you really afraid of losing when you think about quitting alcohol? Tune in to find out!
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