SHITSHOW SATURDAY #185 - TrevorSHITSHOW SATURDAY #185 - Trevor
Adult Child
Trevor shares his story of overcoming childhood trauma, ADHD, and CPTSD while finding support in Andrea's community. His candid reflections offer insights into healing and personal growth.
44:10•3 Jan 2026
Trevor's Journey: Healing from a Dysfunctional Past
Episode Overview
- Understanding the link between ADHD and complex trauma.
- The importance of finding a supportive community.
- How childhood experiences shape adult behaviour.
- Embracing vulnerability in personal relationships.
- Navigating mental health challenges with honesty.
“"I was a 180 in middle and high school as teachers and people caught on to me just being a slacker."”
What drives someone to seek a life without alcohol? In this engaging episode of Adult Child, Andrea Ashley sits down with Trevor, a member of the 'Shitshow' community, to explore the complexities of growing up in a dysfunctional family and the path to healing. Trevor shares his journey from childhood challenges, including ADHD and complex trauma, to finding solace and understanding in Andrea's community. He candidly discusses his struggle with procrastination, avoidance, and the heavy burden of unlived potential.
Through a mix of humour and honesty, Trevor reveals how he has navigated these hurdles, shedding light on the often-overlooked connection between ADHD and CPTSD. The conversation touches on the impact of Trevor's upbringing, where parental dynamics and lack of structure played significant roles in shaping his adult life. His reflections on family relationships, particularly with his sister and parents, highlight the emotional weight carried from childhood.
Trevor's candidness about his mental health journey and his experiences with therapy provide valuable insights into the importance of seeking help and finding the right support systems. Trevor also shares his recent experiences with dating, revealing how honesty and vulnerability have transformed his approach to relationships. This episode is a testament to the power of community and the shared experiences that bind us all in our pursuit of healing and growth.
Whether you're dealing with similar issues or simply curious about the human experience, this episode offers a relatable and heartwarming narrative that encourages reflection and connection. So, what can we learn from those who have battled addiction and trauma? Dive into Trevor's story to find out.

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