Shaun Harvey
Liz Lange
Staying Connected When Teens Pull Away
Staying Connected When Teens Pull Away
Staying Connected When Teens Pull Away
Thursday 28th August 2025
Learn how to stay connected with your teen as they seek independence. Tips on balancing support and autonomy from 'Mental Health Matters'.
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Shaun Harvey
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Episode Overview
- Recognise teen autonomy as a normal developmental stage.
- Balance support for teens' interests with family commitments.
- Avoid taking teen behaviour personally or controlling them tightly.
- Embrace the teenage years as an exciting time for growth.
- Maintain trust by respecting privacy and encouraging open communication.
It's a sign that you're doing it right; your kid feels comfortable enough to form relationships with friends.
What happens when your teen starts to pull away? This episode of 'Mental Health Matters' dives into the natural developmental process where teens seek autonomy from their parents. Hosts Liz Lang, along with Jeremiah and Selina Woodruff, explore how parents can cope with this transition while maintaining a healthy connection with their children. Liz shares a personal anecdote about her daughter’s newfound passion for writing, which illustrates the delicate balance between supporting a child's interests and ensuring family time.
The discussion emphasises the importance of recognising this phase as a normal part of growing up, not a rejection of parental love. The hosts delve into common parental mistakes, like taking teen behaviour personally or trying to control them too tightly, which can push teens further away. Instead, they suggest embracing the teenage years as an exciting time for both parents and children, encouraging open communication and understanding.
By taking an interest in what teens are passionate about, parents can foster stronger connections. The episode offers practical advice on how to maintain trust and privacy while still being involved in your teen's life. Listeners are encouraged to see this phase as an opportunity to transition from being a dictator to a mentor or coach, guiding their teens through life’s challenges.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by your teen’s changing behaviour, this episode provides a compassionate perspective and helpful strategies to stay connected. Are you ready to embrace the teenage years with open arms and an open mind?