Violence and the Abandonment of the SelfViolence and the Abandonment of the Self
Inner Bonding
Dr. Margaret Paul explores how self-abandonment leads to violence and offers healing through the Inner Bonding process. Learn to reconnect with your true self.
20:59•17 Nov 2025
Healing the Roots of Violence: A Journey to Self-Connection
Episode Overview
- Violence begins with emotional disconnection and self-abandonment.
- Inner Bonding helps transform harmful behaviours from within.
- Self-abandonment manifests as anxiety, depression, and anger.
- Sociopathy often stems from early emotional neglect.
- Healing involves reconnecting with your true self and taking loving actions.
“"Violence is what can happen when the wounded self tries to escape or control pain."”
Ever wondered what it takes to address the root causes of violence in our society? Dr. Margaret Paul dives into the profound link between self-abandonment and violent behaviour in this episode of Inner Bonding. Violence isn't just about physical harm; it starts within when we disconnect from our own feelings and inner child. Dr.
Paul explains how emotional disconnection can lead to harmful behaviours, and how the Inner Bonding process can help heal and transform these tendencies from the inside out. You'll learn that violence often begins with ignoring or suppressing emotions, harsh self-judgment, or relying on addictions to numb pain. Dr. Paul highlights how these forms of self-abandonment can manifest as anxiety, depression, and anger, which may then lead to external violence.
The episode also touches on how societal figures like dictators and cult leaders often display sociopathic traits due to early emotional abandonment. Dr. Paul offers a solution through the Inner Bonding process, a self-healing method that encourages reconnecting with your true self. By recognising and addressing false beliefs and self-abandoning behaviours, you can learn to take loving actions towards your inner child.
This practice not only reduces personal pain but also contributes to a more peaceful world by breaking the cycle of violence. With a mix of expert advice and personal anecdotes, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the deeper causes of violence and how to cultivate inner peace. Ready to explore how reconnecting with your soul can bring about healing? Tune in and find out!
Remember, healing is possible, and it begins with choosing not to abandon yourself. How might your life change if you embraced this journey?

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