Lee Davy

1000 Days Sober Podcast

Lee Davy

  • Why Alcohol Destroys Intimacy—Even When You’re Sober

Why Alcohol Destroys Intimacy—Even When You’re Sober

Sunday 6th July 2025

Explore how alcohol affects intimacy, turning connection into escape. Lee Davy shares insights on self-led living and genuine relationships.
13 minutes
Honest
Raw
Supportive
Eye-opening
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1000 Days Sober Podcast
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Lee Davy
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The Hidden Cost of Alcohol: Intimacy's Silent Saboteur

Episode Overview

  • Alcohol can blur boundaries and affect genuine connections.
  • Intimacy starts with presence, not just physical closeness.
  • Slowing down can transform intimacy from performance to communion.
  • Recognise the difference between seeking connection and escaping reality.
  • Embrace a self-led life for more meaningful relationships.
When alcohol enters the equation, you leave the equation.
Ever wondered why a simple kiss can leave you feeling lonelier than before? This episode of the 1000 Days Sober Podcast tackles the complex relationship between alcohol and intimacy. Host Lee Davy shares his personal journey of discovering how alcohol blurs boundaries and affects genuine connections. With a sprinkle of humour and raw honesty, Lee discusses the concept of 'PARTS-kissing' versus 'SELF-kissing', highlighting how alcohol can hijack intimacy, turning it into a mere escape rather than a true connection.
He explores the idea that many people confuse physical closeness with emotional intimacy, often using alcohol as a crutch to feel wanted or to escape their own feelings. Lee's reflections on his past relationships offer listeners a chance to ponder their own experiences and recognise the difference between seeking connection and escaping reality. Lee's candid storytelling reveals how slowing down and being present can transform intimacy from performance to communion.
The episode encourages you to reflect on your own relationships and ask whether your actions stem from your true self or past experiences. Whether you're still drinking or living an alcohol-free life, this conversation is crucial in understanding how sobriety can lead to more meaningful connections. Dive into this thought-provoking discussion to learn how embracing a self-led life can help you foster genuine intimacy without the influence of alcohol.
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