5. Boundaries, Relationship Fantasies and Cults

5. Boundaries, Relationship Fantasies and Cults

Ever struggled with setting boundaries or found yourself lost in a relationship fantasy? This episode of 'Ask An Advanced Bitch' with Elizabeth Kupferman might just be what you need. Elizabeth kicks things off by diving into the tricky world of boundaries. She breaks down the difference between simply telling people your boundaries and actually living them. It’s not about controlling others, but about protecting and honoring yourself.

She also touches on the tough part—dealing with the consequences when someone crosses those boundaries. Spoiler: it's often harder on us than on them. In the next segment, Elizabeth tackles a listener's question about mourning a relationship that was more fantasy than reality. She reassures us that fantasizing is a common coping mechanism and nothing to be ashamed of. But when that fantasy ends, it can hurt just as much as losing something real.

Elizabeth offers comforting advice on dealing with this unique kind of heartache and explores the deep-seated issues of shame and abandonment that often come with it. Finally, Elizabeth brings her friend Taylor Wallis into the mix to chat about their fascination with cults, using the show 'Keep Sweet, Pray and Obey' as a springboard. They delve into why cults are so compelling and how childhood trauma can make us more susceptible to their allure.

Throughout the episode, Elizabeth blends her professional insights with personal anecdotes, making for a relatable and enlightening listen. If you're grappling with trauma, addiction, or codependency, this episode offers practical advice wrapped in a warm, no-nonsense package.