Untangling Codependency: Insights on Sex Addiction
Episode Overview
Codependency often involves inappropriate boundaries. Recovery requires understanding compulsive behaviours. Healing relationships need open communication and safety. Recovery is possible for both individuals and couples. Setting boundaries is crucial in managing codependency.
Codependency is me flushing your drugs down the toilet, then needles in your lunch pail, just in case.
In this episode of 'In The Circle', Tommy Rosen invites Kari Kwinn to shed light on the intricate web of codependency and sex addiction. Kari, an anthropologist and yoga teacher, brings a refreshing perspective to the conversation, drawing from her own experiences in a relationship with a sex addict. She likens codependency to having inappropriate boundaries and highlights the often unspoken challenges faced by those in such relationships.
With her humorous analogy about flushing drugs down the toilet, Kari illustrates the extremes of codependency – a mix of control and manipulation. Kari's insights delve into how codependency can manifest in various forms, often leading individuals to change themselves in an attempt to meet their partner's needs. She shares her journey of healing and recovery, emphasising the importance of boundaries and self-awareness.
Kari discusses how understanding the compulsive nature of sex addiction can help in recognising its impact on relationships. Her perspective encourages listeners to explore the grey areas of addiction rather than viewing it as a black-and-white issue. Tommy and Kari explore the possibility of healing within relationships affected by sex addiction, stressing the significance of safety and open communication. They discuss how recovery can be transformative for both individuals and couples, providing hope for those struggling with similar challenges.
This episode is a beacon for anyone grappling with codependency or in a relationship with a sex addict. Kari's experiences offer a sense of camaraderie and understanding, reminding us that recovery is possible and that we are not alone in our struggles. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that might just change your perspective on addiction and recovery.