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Emotional Sobriety: The Next Step in Recovery
Nutshell of the Day: “Even introverts need connection and support. Solitude is vital. Isolation is deadly.” On the eve of Joe C.’s sober birthday, he drops by to talk about managing expectations, staying sane and emotionally sober during Thanksgiving. Learn more about Joe C., Secular AA and Rebellion Dogs here: https://rebelliondogspublishing.com Follow us on social media. Podcast Twitter: @EmSobrietyPod Instagram: thomrutledge2 Joe C. Twitter: @Rebellion_Dogs Friendly Circle Berlin Workshop Group meets every Monday @ 7:30pm (Berlin), 6:30pm (Ireland & UK), 1:30pm EST, 10:30am PST Zoom Link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5505019905 Allen’s book, 12 Essential Insights for Emotional Sobriety: https://www.amazon.com/12-Essential-Insights-Emotional-Sobriety/dp/1955415129/ Join Allen & Thom at our Thursday night, 7pm PST Zoom meeting on Emotional Sobriety and the Steps (login information below): https://zoom.us/j/330149513 Password: 375986 For our ongoing workshop video series on Emotional Sobriety and the 12 Steps, visit our YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHEM2-kqLkfp3I4c0jy-X-g Also, please join our “Emotional Sobriety and Recovery” FB Group at the following link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/120450976662519 We’d love to stay in touch in between meetings. We appreciate feedback! Contact Patrick, our producer, at pndirective4@gmail.com for any questions or comments.
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Managing Expectations: Emotional Sobriety During the Holidays
Episode Overview
- Holidays can be stressful but offer opportunities for emotional growth.
- Managing expectations is crucial for maintaining emotional sobriety.
- Solitude is essential for recharging, but isolation can be harmful.
- Acceptance of circumstances can reduce holiday stress.
- Connect with supportive communities to navigate festive challenges.
“"Even introverts need connection and support. Solitude is vital. Isolation is deadly."”
Curious about how others navigate their sobriety journey? In this episode, Thom Rutledge and Dr. Allen Berger, alongside guest Joe C., tackle the holiday season—a time often fraught with expectations and emotional turbulence for those in recovery. As Joe celebrates his sober birthday, he reflects on how he manages to stay emotionally sober during Thanksgiving, a holiday notorious for its demands and pressures.
The hosts share personal anecdotes about solitude versus isolation, highlighting the importance of connecting with oneself and others. They also discuss the pitfalls of unrealistic holiday expectations and how they can lead to disappointment. With humour and honesty, the episode explores how acceptance and understanding can transform holiday stress into opportunities for emotional growth. Whether it's dealing with family pressures or societal norms, listeners are offered practical advice on maintaining emotional sobriety during festive times.
So, are holidays truly a gauntlet, or can they be a chance for gratitude and reflection? Dive into these insights and find out.
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