Andrea
Andrea
Love or Trauma Bond w/ Alan Kaufman
Love or Trauma Bond w/ Alan Kaufman
Love or Trauma Bond w/ Alan Kaufman
Thursday 22nd July 2021
Andrea and Alan Kaufman discuss trauma bonding, generational trauma, and finding healing from past wounds in this episode of 'Adult Child'.
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72 minutes
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Healing
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Get the buttons here!Understanding Trauma Bonds: Alan Kaufman on Healing and Liberation
So the other main characteristic of a trauma bond is a power imbalance, and this is why growing up in a dysfunctional family puts us at such a great risk of developing traumatic bonds later on, because of the traumatic bonds that we developed with our parents.
What happens when the lines between love and trauma blur? In this episode of 'Adult Child', Andrea takes a deep look at trauma bonding, a complex phenomenon where victims form strong emotional ties with their abusers. Joined by acclaimed writer Alan Kaufman, they unpack the intricacies of trauma bonds and their profound impact on adult children of dysfunctional families.
Alan shares his personal story of being raised by a mother who survived the Holocaust, illustrating how such deep-rooted trauma can shape relationships in adulthood. The discussion sheds light on why those who grow up in chaotic environments are more vulnerable to forming these harmful bonds. Through Alan's narrative, listeners gain insight into the power imbalances that often define trauma bonds and the lingering effects of generational trauma and toxic shame.
The episode doesn't just stop at identifying the problem; it also offers a beacon of hope. Andrea and Alan explore pathways to healing, emphasizing the importance of breaking free from the past to find true liberation. They also touch on the therapeutic role of storytelling in recovery. Whether you're grappling with your own trauma bonds or supporting someone who is, this episode provides valuable perspectives and practical advice for navigating the journey toward healing.