Sober Love: Embracing Selfishness in Recovery
Episode Overview
Turning selfishness into a tool for relationship growth. 'Always Be Dating' as a strategy for maintaining intimacy. Humorous anecdotes illustrate complex relationship dynamics. Exploration of gender roles in modern relationships. The importance of open communication in recovery.
Even my gifts are selfish. I have given Sherry a hand-carved walking stick so she'll go on hikes with me.
Ever wondered what it takes to keep a relationship thriving amidst the chaos of addiction recovery? In this episode of the Untoxicated Podcast, Matt and Sheri Salis offer a candid look at their journey, revealing the complexities of maintaining a marriage while battling alcoholism. With a blend of humour and raw honesty, Matt shares his unique perspective on selfishness, describing how he learned to turn his self-interest into a tool for nurturing his relationship with Sheri.
The concept of 'Always Be Dating' (ABD) becomes the cornerstone of their marriage, challenging traditional gender roles and promoting emotional intimacy. Matt's storytelling is peppered with anecdotes that are both relatable and entertaining, like the infamous Spotify account saga. His reflections on selfishness provide a refreshing take on how personal flaws can be redirected towards positive relationship dynamics. Sheri's generosity shines through, demonstrating how love and understanding can transform even the most challenging situations.
Listeners will find themselves laughing at Matt's self-deprecating humour while simultaneously pondering the deeper message about love and recovery. This episode is a testament to the power of vulnerability and open communication in overcoming the hurdles of addiction. Whether you're in recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers valuable insights into building stronger relationships. So, what does it mean to always be dating?
Dive into this engaging episode to find out how Matt and Sheri's approach might just be the key to unlocking a more fulfilling partnership. Are you ready to embrace your selfish side for the greater good?